The Difficult Women

We love the easy woman, because she is easy, but...

we are drawn to the TASK of unlocking the sexuality of the difficult woman, precisely because we know a WOMAN is there under her robes in any situation.  The reward is unlocking the sexual nature of the woman presented to us in the distinctly nonsexual situation.
Would you rather have twenty dollars earned after a hard day's work, or a twenty dollars given to you for free?  The answer is obvious, yet the male mind is drawn to that twenty from work.  surely this is not rational.

the male mind is not innately rational simply because it is opposite to the female mind and the female mind is irrational.  we are, like the women, wholly and dramatically irrational, just differently.  Coke and Pepsi are both cola.  But Coke ain't Pepsi.